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September 5, 2024When navigating the complexities of custody and access schedules in Maryland, the paramount concern is always the best interests of the child.
Developing a custody plan that meets the emotional and developmental needs of your child while accommodating the realities of modern family life requires careful consideration and, often, professional guidance.
At Baumohl Hamburg LLC, we focus our practice in Maryland family law and understand the nuances involved in creating and litigating for effective and nurturing custody arrangements that are in the best interests of children.
Key Factors Considered by Maryland Courts in Custody and Access Schedules
1. Child's Age and Developmental Stage
Young children, particularly those under three years old, often benefit from frequent contact with both parents to form secure attachments. As children grow, their developmental needs evolve, and so should custody arrangements. School-aged children may need schedules that accommodate their educational and extracurricular activities, ensuring they maintain stability and routine.
2. Parental Availability and Flexibility
Both parents' work schedules, commitments, and willingness to cooperate play crucial roles in determining an effective custody plan. Flexibility and open communication between parents can significantly ease transitions and reduce stress for the child.
3. Geographical Proximity
The distance between the parents' homes impacts the feasibility of various custody arrangements. Closer proximity allows for more frequent transitions and shared responsibilities, which can be seen as beneficial for the child.
4. Consistency and Stability
Children thrive on routine and stability. A consistent schedule helps them know what to expect and feel secure. Sudden changes or a lack of routine can lead to stress and anxiety for some children.
5. Child's Preferences
As children mature, their preferences are considered, especially if they can articulate their feelings about the custody arrangement. However, the ultimate decision should reflect their best interests, even if it means balancing their preferences with other important factors. Every child is different and every situation is different.
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Creating Effective Custody Plans—Some Common Plans
1. Week-on/Week-off Schedule
This arrangement can work well for older children who can handle longer periods away from each parent. It provides each parent with extended quality time and minimizes transitions.
2. 2-2-3 Schedule
For younger children, this schedule allows frequent contact with both parents, which may maintain strong relationships. The child spends two days with one parent, two with the other, and then three days with the first parent, rotating the following week.
3. Split Week Schedule
This arrangement can be ideal for parents with conflicting work schedules. This plan splits the week between both parents, ensuring the child has regular contact with both.
4. Weekend Schedule
In a typical weekend schedule one parent has the children from Friday through either Sunday or Monday. This arrangement allows quality time while maintaining routine for the children. This schedule is often expanded to include midweek parenting time in the week where no weekend parenting time is scheduled.
Challenges and Considerations
1. Managing Transitions
Transitions can be challenging, especially for younger children. Strategies like maintaining similar routines and rituals at both homes can ease these changes.
2. Communication Between Parents
Effective co-parenting requires open and respectful communication. Tools like shared calendars and co-parenting apps can facilitate this.
3. Adapting to Changes
Custody arrangements should be flexible enough to adapt to changes in the child's needs or the parents' circumstances. Regular reviews and adjustments can ensure the plan remains effective.
Conclusion
Creating a custody and access schedule that a court finds will truly serve the best interests of the child involves careful planning, flexibility, and a willingness to adapt. At Baumohl Hamburg LLC, we are committed to helping Maryland client navigate these challenging waters with compassion and expertise. If you need assistance developing or advocating for a custody plan that works for you and your child, contact us today.
By focusing on the key elements of effective custody arrangements and the unique needs of each child, you can ensure that your custody plan represents your view of what is in the best interest of the child supports your child's well-being and development.
Disclaimer: The information provided in this article is for informational purposes only and should not be construed as legal advice. It is always recommended to consult with a qualified attorney for personalized guidance and representation in legal matters.
About the Author
Harry Baumohl is one of Maryland’s foremost family law practitioners. His areas of focus include but are certainly not limited to the following: experienced family law attorney, dealing with divorce, child custody, and high net worth divorce litigation with over four decades of an amazing track record and quality expertise. Focused on representing clients – for wives, husbands and same-sex couples, alike – typically with high family income, net worth and substantial and/or complicated asset scenarios. Expertly untangling complicated household monetary and family asset situations. Expertise in high conflict and ongoing parenting disputes. Prenuptial agreements as a planning tool. Mediation and collaborative family law.
Harry is a founder of Baumohl Hamburg LLC, situated in Pikesville, Maryland, Baltimore County, conveniently located right off the Baltimore Beltway. Significant representation and court appearances in surrounding areas, including but not limited to – Baltimore County, Baltimore City, Carroll County, Harford County, Howard County, and Anne Arundel County.