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October 16, 2024Custody disputes are often the most emotionally challenging part of a divorce or separation. When parents cannot agree on a custody arrangement, Maryland courts may turn to a custody evaluation to help determine the best interests of the child. For families navigating high-net-worth and high-income divorces, custody evaluations can become even more complex, as they often involve a greater degree of scrutiny into the family’s finances, lifestyle, and overall well-being of the children.
At Baumohl Hamburg LLC, we understand the emotional and legal complexities that come with Maryland custody disputes. This article will explore the purpose of custody evaluations, the process, and how you can best prepare yourself for this important step in your custody case.
Purpose of a Custody Evaluation
The primary goal of a custody evaluation is to assist the court in determining what custody arrangement will best serve the child’s physical, emotional, and developmental needs. Courts may rely on an impartial evaluator—typically a mental health professional, investigator or social worker with expertise in family dynamics and child development—to provide a detailed report and recommendations.
The evaluator’s role is not to advocate for either parent but rather to objectively assess the family situation and provide insights into what type of arrangement will foster the child’s well-being. In high-net-worth cases, where both parents may have the financial means to provide a luxurious lifestyle, the evaluator will focus less on material wealth and more on the child’s emotional security, relationship with each parent, and overall stability.
The Custody Evaluation Process
Custody evaluations generally follow a structured process, which may vary depending on the evaluator or jurisdiction, but usually includes these key steps:
1. Initial Meetings with Parents
Each parent will typically meet with the evaluator individually. During these meetings, the evaluator will ask questions about each parent’s role in the child’s life, their parenting style, and their relationship with the child. These meetings are an opportunity for the evaluator to understand each parent's perspective on the custody dispute and their vision for the child’s future.
2. Interviews with the Children
If the child is old enough, the evaluator may interview them as well. The goal is to understand the child’s perspective, emotional state, and relationships with each parent. It’s important to note that children are not asked to “choose” a parent, but their feelings and observations may be considered in the evaluation.
3. Home Visits
In many cases, the evaluator will visit each parent’s home to assess the living conditions and the child’s environment. This allows the evaluator to see where the child will live and interact with the parent and potentially other household members. The focus here is on the child’s comfort, safety, and overall environment in each parent’s home.
4. Review of Documents
Evaluators may request to review relevant documents such as school records, police records, department of social services records, medical records, and communication between the parents. In high-net-worth cases, financial records may also be considered if there is a dispute over the child’s standard of living or resources available for their care.
5. Third-Party Interviews
The evaluator may interview other people involved in the child’s life, such as teachers, caregivers, therapists, or extended family members. These third-party perspectives can provide valuable insights into the child’s well-being and relationships with each parent.
6. The Final Report
Once the evaluation is complete, the evaluator will submit a report to the court. This report will contain their observations, findings, and recommendations for a custody arrangement. While the court is not bound to follow these recommendations, they often carry significant weight in the court’s final decision.
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Preparation Tips for a Custody Evaluation
A custody evaluation can feel intimidating, but proper preparation can help you present your situation in the best possible light. Here are some practical tips to guide you through the process:
1. Be Honest and Open
The evaluator’s role is to get an accurate picture of your family situation. It’s crucial to be honest about your strengths and weaknesses as a parent. Trying to paint an overly perfect picture or withholding information can come across as disingenuous. Remember, the evaluator is there to help the court determine what is best for your child, so being open and transparent will work in your favor.
2. Stay Child-Centered
The evaluator’s focus is on the best interests of the child, and yours should be, too. Be sure to emphasize how your parenting approach prioritizes your child’s emotional and physical well-being. Avoid speaking negatively about the other parent unless it directly impacts the child’s safety or well-being. Instead, focus on your own positive relationship with the child and your ability to meet their needs.
3. Be Prepared for Home Visits
Your home is an extension of your parenting, and the evaluator will be looking to see whether your living space is conducive to your child’s well-being. Make sure your home is clean, safe, and child-friendly. However, don’t go overboard—your home should reflect your everyday living environment, not an idealized version of it.
4. Document Your Involvement
Evaluators appreciate concrete examples of your involvement in your child’s life. Keep records of important interactions, such as attending school events, doctor’s appointments, or extracurricular activities. If you have been the primary caregiver, show how you’ve consistently met your child’s needs.
5. Practice Calm and Respectful Communication
The evaluator will observe how you interact with your child and how you speak about the other parent. It’s important to remain calm, respectful, and focused on your child’s needs. Avoid displaying anger or resentment toward your ex-partner during the evaluation process.
What Happens After the Custody Evaluation?
Once the evaluator submits their report to the court, both parents or their attorneys will receive a copy. The report will outline the evaluator’s recommendations for custody and visitation. If either parent disagrees with the findings, they can challenge the report in court.
At Baumohl Hamburg LLC, we understand the weight custody evaluations carry in custody cases. Our team is experienced in guiding parents through this process, ensuring that your voice is heard and your rights as a parent are protected.
Navigating a custody evaluation can be overwhelming, but you don’t have to go through it alone. Baumohl Hamburg Maryland family law experts and divorce lawyers have experience and expertise in family law custody cases. Our experienced attorneys will help you prepare for the custody evaluation process and advocate for your parental rights every step of the way. Contact us today to schedule a consultation and learn how we can support you in your custody case.
Disclaimer: The information provided in this article is for informational purposes only and should not be construed as legal advice. It is always recommended to consult with a qualified attorney for personalized guidance and representation in legal matters.
About the Author
Harry Baumohl is one of Maryland’s top family law attorneys, with over four decades of experience in divorce, child custody, and high-net-worth family cases. His compassionate and straightforward approach has earned him the trust of his clients, helping them make informed decisions during challenging times. Harry specializes in complex divorce litigation, untangling complicated financial and asset situations, and representing high-income families. A Maryland Super lawyer and graduate of the University of Baltimore Law School, Harry provides expert legal representation to families across the state.